An unconventional view

Being human is a complex blend of physical, emotional, intellectual and social aspects that define our existence.

Being human allows us the ability to love, suffer, grow and strive for purpose and meaning in life. It allows us the capacity for self awareness, and the ability to connect with others individually and collectively. Life is about what we came here to learn, experience, and understand. The details of how we go about something aren't as important as the choices we make and the attitudes while making those decisions.

My name is Devaki, I am a writer-philosopher, singer-songwriter, recluse, minimalist, and vegan with a background in nursing, personal training, gym management alternative therapies, and life mentoring. I was diagnosed with Autism level 2, general and social anxiety at 64 in November 2022. I also have complex trauma and have lived with Fibromyalgia since 1993. Being diagnosed with autism helped me make sense of my life. The so called normal projected by society is a myth and why people who don't fit into its criteria are seen by society as having deficits rather than just being different.

We need to embrace a world that is ruled by compassion and kindness, and one that doesn’t enable those who intentionally harm others for their own gain. We live in a world that likes to celebrate selfishness and greed. Most of these people fit the mold of narcissistic self absorbed personalities that feel entitled to get what they want without caring about the suffering it creates for others. We will all come across more of these people in our daily lives so it's time now more than ever that we need to stop enabling them out of fear and not tolerate the suffering they are creating for humanity.

This website is to help people live meaningful lives as decent human beings on their own terms. I write for both neurotypical and neurodivergent people because I understand well how they both navigate purpose in life and have mentored both neurotypes for decades. My intention isn’t for you to adopt my beliefs, but rather for you to keep an open mind for a moment about your thoughts, feelings and actions and how they impact others. It might offer a new perspective on yourself and the world around you.