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Devaki Sokaris

Live the life your soul wants

7:When is the right time to start a new relationship?

Are you between relationships or have not long been through a breakup and you are contemplating getting out there to find another soul mate?

Before you do this, ask yourself Have I had enough time to understand what I need to learn from this relationship, and what is best for me now? Sometimes when you don’t take time out for a while to understand yourself you can run a high risk of attracting more of what you don’t want. It’s good to take this time to become more self-aware about patterns you were not aware of repeating and connect with your inner wisdom, and truth about what you need to grow before embarking on another relationship.

People these days are too quick to pursue another soul mate. Your soul has an agenda for you to grow so it will find many avenues to make sure you get what you need so if you haven’t learnt the lesson it will come to again, and it although it may be dressed in a different outfit it will be the same.

These days people are more afraid of being on their own than learning to understand themselves better. After a relationship ends self-awareness is important so you need to take the time you need for this to happen.

The self-awareness you can gain while single is important as this can’t be attained while you are still clouded by unresolved emotions from the previous relationship, so this is a perfect opportunity to get clarity on who you are, what you want and where you want to go.

The growth you gain when in a relationship is different growth so it’s important to be as ready as you can by getting on track with your values and purpose, otherwise if you are not clear on who you are, and what you want, you may end up taking another journey down the same road as previously taken.

A soul mate is meant to push the buttons that can’t be pressed on your own. In a relationship, you are striving to become your better self through the challenges the other person brings to light. A partner will often bring forth your shadow self, and the parts about yourself you don’t like, and find challenging. These tend to lie dormant until triggered by a relationship, and why some choose to be single as they don’t want to meet with these challenges.

When you are in the right relationship you will grow as your soul intended, and become a better version of yourself. Whether you stay together for death do us part depends on what the soul needs to learn, and whether this can be learned with the same partner for life.


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